Now, the subordinate does not move in indication order.Instead being observed “question”.With entering, as for the superior question without doing easily, suffering hardship, it is.Why probably will be? And, is the point which solves the trouble probably what?
<> – “The tsu [te] which is asked being difficult, the shank” (the 1P eye) – The dangerous trap that “you think”, (the 1P eye) – As for question not coming out the empty “you think” (the 2P eye) – The superior calls the one which “is not thought”, (the 3P eye)
“The tsu [te] which is asked being difficult, the shank”
| Question does not come out with only opinion |
When it has practicing the method of hearing the coating with such as administrative position study, rather than the person thinking mainly, becoming aware in not being able to ask, you are surprised.
When question of coating is remembered in the book, with study learned the flow and question of coating many superiors, now then become practice of the subordinate, their own opinion precedes, has been troubled to question not coming out very.
Will this why probably be? If how it does, it probably is to be able to solve?
The coating which produces the becoming aware of the partner at brief, keeps pulling out possibility.There as for “question” it is the element which cannot be missed.With say, as for complicated question it is not made some one.Reaching, simple just ones.
“How we would like to become, it is?”
「if、why do not you can do it？」
「do you now state likened to what？」
as you’ll see and get to listen to coaching professional coach、in fact is the most simple and short question further。
「so？」
「once you have done that if？」
「if i taste it？」
this question is simple and short、i do not even know can be quite。
「think」dangerous trap that
the、you look like some of the patterns often seen in coaching novice students。
● the words of the opponent「u [] it is」would have folded his arms and thoughtful。
● if you feel you have questions、「just、○△□…………i was told and、☆☆do not？」and、prelude to a long question profusely。
●「i○△□…………i think it is not、what do you think?？」and、terrible to explain their own opinions、ask a question as afterthought。
how will？ also consider the communication of your own everyday、there may be hit pattern。why、would not be a simple and short questions？
question does not come out.。the reason is that？ next page＞＞
it does not come out you have questions「think」from
question does not come out.、and what is probably the reason that？……
it is fittingly、 「think」 thing。
when people hear the words spoken by、the reaction occurs in a variety of boss。and distracted by its reaction「think」i go trapped。
for example,、「i○○i think it is not」when people said、
「○○what do you mean, would not？」
「how do i、people will notice？」
and begins to question the boss around in circles。or、
「that people are saying is strange」
「when was this way even though their」
so、match against the value of their own standards and experience。
you have such a thing happened。
such a「think」state can be represented as shown below.。the arrows indicate the direction of the consciousness of the boss。boss「think」ibis、 have opposite arrow of consciousness itself rather than the subordinate boss 。
the boss is like this「think」when you start that、no such question or、opinion is mixed question of boss will be in and out。more、you will not hear talk of people to concentrate properly。
in order to grow the subordinates、subordinates rather than a boss「think」among、themselves aware of、going to discover the answer is important。boss「think」is just、subordinate「do not think」becomes as、growing up does not go。
for subordinates grow is the boss「do not think」 next page＞＞
the boss「do not think」better
subordinates「think」in order、 boss「do not think」 the point is that。
「do not think」also said、does not mean that in a daze。please see the figure below。in the same way as figure on the previous page、although the arrow shows the direction of the consciousness of boss、the arrow of consciousness itself is not a boss、state is facing the subordinate 。rather than finding the answer in their own、i go looking for the answer is in the subordinate。
as if to explore the unknown world like、potential partner in、and go for the curiosity to answer、question conclusion leads naturally。and、springs have your own question「think」rather than、we will cast the opponent as it is。
「○○what feeling mean？」
「what happens if it can be？」
「now、what’s going？」
arrow of consciousness toward the opponent is still much。this do、the arrow of consciousness subordinate boss、if the answer for the possibilities and some of his men in addition、along the way we are going to keep my awareness on the inner surface of the subordinates。and、usually noticed that i did not notice、i found the answer themselves go。
when the question does not come out quite、i think the question and try to somehow、arrow of consciousness will cause more and more opposite to my own。then、awareness of subordinates is lower、question will cause extra is no longer in。
awareness of the arrow are you facing either？
first、notice of whether they are suitable for either the arrow of consciousness。and、if、if you notice that is right for me、simply、let’s go toward the subordinate。that way、natural and simple questions will come out。
in less familiar is very、boss is easier and become familiar with、will be subordinate to grow。please try to continue to do！
this article、2005year5month26sun released monthly magazine 『diagnostic companies』 6mon no.（doyu museum）of articles「improvisation and coaching」part of the、『diagnostic companies』upon permission of the editorial department、i’ve reproduced the fix is planted saru categories。『diagnostic companies』in the article is published、improvisation is a method of actor training（improvisation）utilizing the game、「do not think」we’ll send you updates with the latest training。is effective when serving there also read。
【reference book site】
■『coaching bible—new communication methods for people to live better』（laura whitworth/phil sandaru/henry chiemsee by house CTIwhy japan toyo keizai inc.）
■『extend coaching subordinates—「management imperative」from「management question type」to 』（british author tsuyoshi enomoto PHPbusiness book selection）
■『the essence of coaching：do not you think！ 』
【related sites】
■「worries boss」series solution1—「subordinates opinion you want to」cure the disease！
■「worries boss」series solution2—opinion it is not at the meeting……
■「get to know the basics of coaching！１——coach coach does not teach teach」
■「story of people will now listen to you even in this——required for the coaching１blank sheets of」
■「learn the basics of coaching：listening, listening」
■「learn the basics of coaching：question」
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